My dad was often called “leader,” as was his father before him and who knows others in the line of “Millers” in East Lampeter Township, Pennsylvania. The Millers were often elected to local offices, chosen to represent the congregation on the church council, and recruited to help solve problems in the communities they served. I particularly remember a time when my father negotiated a solution to a problem generated by changes in state health regulations. My dad was a dairyman, not a dairy farmer but rather an employee of a dairy that processed milk for sale. In the mid-fifties, Pennsylvania regulations regarding storage of milk at the farm before delivery to the dairy forced the farmer to revise storage from milk cans (those collector’s items we often see revamped into planters) to refrigerated storage tanks, delivering the milk to the processing dairy in tank trucks. As might be expected, many of the large dairy farms that were the source of fresh milk were Amish farms, where electricity was forbidden by their religion. Starting with the respect held by the Amish for “the Millers,” my father was able to convince the Amish farmers that there must be a way to allow access to electricity ensuring refrigerated milk storage. The solution was simple. The Amish were forbidden to use electricity in their daily living but not in their livelihoods. Installation of generators to refrigerate the milk, controlled by the farmers themselves and not connected to the “Englisher’s” world, were the answer. At the heart of the leadership demonstrated by my dad to resolve this issue was his ability to listen, to hear the needs of both the Amish farmers and the State health officers, and to bring them together to share their needs and find a way to satisfy both sides. I watched both my father and my grandfather as they provided similar services to community. And by the time I was a teenager, I was acting in similar leadership roles in school, church, 4-H, Y-Teens. As I look back, I was copying leadership as I had learned it from my first mentor, my father.
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